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"I'm Patrick. I like to play video games. I like sports too. Isaiah and I like to paint and do art together. I painted a Hummer and Isaiah painted a jet. He let me paint the rockets on his jet." Because Isaiah and Patrick have seen more hard times than any child should experience, they need a mom and a dad who understand the challenges left in the wake of that history. These boys deserve parents who are inherently wise, patient and emotionally secure. They've thrived in a foster home with strong boundaries and a structured environment. Clarity of communication has helped them understand rules and find comfort in reliable routines. They're now ready for wider opportunities to experience their world. Organized sports and community activities such as Scouting and 4-H are ways they could continue to build confidence. Family vacations and recreation in outdoor areas are joys one lucky family will enjoy introducing them to. Isaiah and Patrick could be the only children in the family. They would also do well with teen siblings who are not competitive about a parent's attention. The boys could learn social skills from older family members. Teaching moments could occur regarding how others' actions affect feelings and vice versa. These are concepts the boys are learning. An adoption committee will be looking for folks who understand the background these brothers come from and recognize how much progress they've made. It will take two parents working as a team to ensure educational and emotional progress continues. This will be accomplished through Individual Educational Plans (IEP), counseling, psychosocial rehabilitation (PSR) and medication management. That will take a firm commitment to the many appointments that go with these services. As they enjoy discoveries through travel and family activities, Isaiah and Patrick will amaze you with their emotional growth. Don't expect overnight miracles. Coping behaviors that helped them survive will have to be honed for ones that offer greater security and feelings of belonging. Isaiah and Patrick want frequent visits and contact with their two sisters living in Southwestern Idaho. The girls' adoptive family looks forward to sleepovers, shared vacations or other opportunities for these children to remain in close contact. |
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